“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Text Game and escalation

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Dr.Jay

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Whats up guys? Im a community college student working on graduating and moving on to a university.I don't have a problem talking to girls and closing the number,but its like every time i close a girls number.We text and its like we end up at a stand still. Anyone have any good advice or suggestions on developing a good text game and escalating?It would really be appreciated:up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Texting is for friends

texting is useless. It just beats around the bush and accomplishes nothing. What you should do is just text for setting dates.

Initially, this kinda threw me off too, "What's wrong with texting?" I thought.

This is the answer that I came too:

Texting allows people to contact you and start a conversation at virtually any time they please. This is a relatively new invention. Cavemen couldn't do this, your parents couldn't do this, hell 10 years ago you couldn't do this sh!t.

The mind still has to adapt, every time you have a text conversation, your mind thinks you actually saw this person and talked to them. If you text a girl, even with moderation, she still makes the connection that she spoke to you, and eventually, she will think you guys talk too much, then by the laws of mathematics, bam! friendzoned.

Keeping texting to a minimum can increase your scarcity value, as well as give her the sense that she is secondary to your life(Since texting is virtually effortless, not texting means you prefer not to be interrupted).
 
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Recently, flying back from Asia, I met a gorgeous flight attendant. We swapped numbers and started a text thing.

She said something a little sexy/funny and I used the opportunity to tell here that I would keep our messages SFW (safe for work) 'for now'. That opened the door to increasingly sex oriented texting back and forth while she was on a trip to/from Shanghai.

When she got back, we met for drinks. I all but did her in a church courtyard next to the bar we met in. We kept each other up all night when we got back to her place. And we will see each other again, 'schedules permitting'.

Yep, not the normal. But don't kid yourselves. Texting can lead directly to the sweet spot.
 
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