"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheFlyingMan

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Since I got into this community about 2 months ago, I have been working hard on myself, I'm halfway thru Carlos Xuma's alpha male book, and 1/3 of the bible. I don't know what I'm doing consciously different but I do believe I have changed a lot in some ways.

And 3 of my old LJBFs have started calling me out of nowhere asking me to go out for movies etc. No fvcks as yet, but that's my sticking point, advancing beyond a certain point with a girl, I think its because I still am hung up on my old oneitis. Other girls that I just met are dropping signals to me like mad.

Once I overcome the pain of my old heartache (I know it sounds gay but I seriously think it's what stopping me from getting a new girl), I will be able to move on to the others.

I've also gotten rid of another LJBF who stuck around and used me. Kicked her out for good.

So to all the other RAFCs out there, this stuff works! Focus on yourself, and the women will come! With the techniques, I'm still working things out, but work on yourself first. Hang in there, other RAFCs!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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V-Don

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Good work,

Keep it up!

I know what you are talking about. I too have improved in major ways. My life is happy when I have the ladies and when I don't. Life is great am I right?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:rockon: ROCK ON! :rockon:
 

DJsparky

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flying man the advice you gave me about my oneitis was execellent, i got over her in 3 days cause of that, so listen to your own advice buddy, she aint worth it! because theres better girls out there
 
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