**** test from gf?

[In_the_works]

Okay I will keep it pretty sort and simple I work part-time at a grocery store and am a college student and this girl that works in a different department on the other side of the store asked me out and we hit it off pretty well. I am 19 and she is 21. So basically we dated for two months and then became bf and gf six weeks or so ago. Funny thing she always wants to see me at work on breaks and stuff and seems interested in me when I see her at work but expresses no desire as of late to hang out with me AT ALL. Last time I asked her about it all I got was an unenthusiastic "I guess." I have been told by some of my friends she is losing interest or just keeping my in her "back pocket" as backup while she goes out to the bars a few nights a week, which I don't bother or ask about. Her interest in me still seems genuine but at the same time I am getting mixed signals. What is your take on this?

 

[WC2]

If it smells like sh!t, it probably is.

Your friends are good friends who have given you good advice. They have obviously been through relationships like this and know when things are starting to get old.

Feel good knowing that you've caught this before anything has actually happened.

I understand you like this girl, but her lack of care for you at the moment shouldn't be acceptable to you. Right now she knows you accept the fact that she isn't being as close as usual to you. In a sense, by you accepting this fate, you are a total turn off to her right now. This is not how a real man acts.

A real man will leave a woman if she is not caring/loving to him.

It sounds to me like your girl needs a reality check very soon. I'm not one to recommend breaking a woman off so quick, but in this case I advise that you think about it.

A girlfriend isn't worth it unless you are enjoying it more so than if you were single. And if you are enjoying the small moments where she is affectionate to you, think of how broken you will be when she nexts you.

Right now is PRIME time to break loose from this girl temporarily or permanently. And there are two possibilities :

1. She will realize that you mean more to her than she means to you (a good thing).

or

2. You will move on to a better woman who WILL give you attention because after all, you will leave her if she doesn't.

And of course if you just let this play out with taking any action, I almost guarantee you that you will be nexted soon enough.