"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Terms of Seductive Endearment

CMNILS87

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Does anyone else get better rapport back from women after using terms of endearment or nicknames with girls you're seeing? I have 3 on rotation and all 3 women act and behave differently so I have to change it up with each one.

Girl one: super hot, short, timid and submissive. Call her my dirty little girl over text or snap and she replies back between dates with nudes, wanting to come over, and very pleasing. Dirty little girl, Hun, baby all interjected in teasing sentences/verbal sets her off and she's soaking wet.

@KingofPuss (find her weakness and exploit). She told me she liked big biceps, so I sent her a pic after I did an arm workout. She was over that night. Stay thirsty at the gym.

Girl 2: educated, fun, hot. Submissive, but a tiger in the sack. On dates I'll just whisper in her ear that she'll get a spanking and she'll be a dirty slut for me. Interject the word "babe" and it's a super positive reinforcer for her to act all lovey dovey.

Girl 3: nurse, hot, a little overweight. Caring, but comes off as bitchy and she likes to be hate ****ed. FB status right now. I angrily call her Hun, then switch it up to "shut the **** up ***** and get over here". She loves being dominated, no idea why Hun and being called a dirty slut sets her off.

Anyone else have positive vibes/rapport from using terms of endearment? Is it the fact that I act super dominant, but also throw in teasing boyfriends terms to peak their interest and drive them crazy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BetterCallSaul

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I've always wanted to use nicknames for various women, but for some reason I think a lot of women don't like them. I think they totally fit for what men would remember.

Sugar tits
Tight hole
The strangler
 
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