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TERMINATING "fear of rejection" In clubs/bars

xterminal01

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I had at least dozen of chances to pick up girls, just like 99% of guys, from clubs and bars but many of them i ignored...
So now i came up with a theory, one should go out there
and forget about eye contact or anything just go and get
per night 10 rejections, however, atleast 5 to 7 numbers You will get by doing so. In addition, you wont feel bad about yourself and your night will be not a waste. That includes talking to the chicks and\or out of the blue ask them for a dance.....

When approaching her just compliment her, i found this
working the best, way better then just whats your name
because women acknowledge it and if they like you they'll melt before your eyes. "You have gorgeous eyes, hair, necklace, ANYTHING"... Once this is done start a simple short convo,
Like this, "what your name, Where are you from, is this your first time here, etc...."
Once this has been established your success rate is about 80 to 90% of succeeding .... WHY DANCE? Simple
1st: cuz this will bring you 2 closer together...
2nd: It will make her want you if U know how to dance correctly (Sexually) NOT ASS SHAKING !!
3rd: She will get commodious...
The dance should not be longer then a 3 to 5 songs MAX...
NEXT....
This line does wonders... " Hey, (HER NAME) it was really nice meeting you, you seem like a cool chick and i could see myself hanging out with you sometimes..... and then wait and smile for about two to five seconds this will put her in a position where she will 95% of the time say "Nice meeting you too here is my #".... If she doesn't respond just say " Is there a number i can reach you at".
Done..... NeXt ChicK !@


:::WARNING:::

THIS METHOD IS TO BE DONE IN A HIGH CLASS CLUB, CONCEIVABLY 21 + BECAUSE FOR YOUNGER GIRLS IT IS DIFFERENT.

2ND: TRY TO DRESS TO IMPRESS, BAGGY, FLABBY, FLOPPY JEANS, POLO SHIRT, WILL NOT DO IT....

3RD TRY CHANGING YOUR HAIR COLOR/STYLE TO ANTITHESIZE / DIFFERENTIATE WITH OTHER GUYS AROUND...

BE anomalous, extraordinary, and unique PLAYER.......

WHY AM I WRITING THIS?

Simple, because i had such a high attainment/achievement rate using this method.
I have dated black, Japanese, white, Hispanic, stripers....etc
SO THIS WORKS FOR ALL KINDS OF WOMAN

If U implement and practice all those rules you will be able to pick seven out of tan girls that you accost...

:::I will post some troubleshooting, if for whatever reason one can't pull this up:::
FOR QUESTIONS, suggestion and commendation....
Xterminal01@yahoo.com

One more thing after you get yourself numbers and dates, DO NOT concentrate, brood over or contemplate on one woman ...NEVER... I have seen so many players played because they stopped doing what they did best.
And gave their attention to the "Special One"...

DON'T BE AFRAID OF GIRLS, They eat, S**T just like you...
You are better then all of them together.....


FEAR IS WEAKNESS.
AND YOU ARE STRONG AND STABLE.
BECAUSE YOU ARE A Don Juan !!!!!!
;)
 
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jakethasnake

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It's hard to take advice from a dyslexic gorilla who can't even spell **** to save his life. :D
 

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AWESOME The best i ever READ !!!!!!

Those are the best tips i read on the whole Don Juan website INCREDIBLE Very nice put together
XT1 KEEP IT COMMING MAN !!!

To jakethasnake You are such an ID1IOT

I READ THE TEXT 5 times and couldnt find any spelling erros?
MAYBE YOU NEVER HEARD OF VOCABULARY USED IN THIS TEXT
LAME AZZ !!!
 

Chemistry

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Good post, but it does just seem to re-emphasise the club PU advice posted on the forums before

And

'seven out of tan'
'stripers'

Sure there's more but who really cares..
 

jakethasnake

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Re: AWESOME The best i ever READ !!!!!!

Originally posted by PLayer4Lajf
Those are the best tips i read on the whole Don Juan website INCREDIBLE Very nice put together
XT1 KEEP IT COMMING MAN !!!

To jakethasnake You are such an ID1IOT

I READ THE TEXT 5 times and couldnt find any spelling erros?
MAYBE YOU NEVER HEARD OF VOCABULARY USED IN THIS TEXT
LAME AZZ !!!

I'm not impressed b/c this same stuff has been regurgitated by yet another newbie with a broken Caps Lock key. Trust me - it happens onces a month. Plus, people who can't spell are one of my pet peeves.
 

PLayer4Lajf

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Okey jakethasnake you obviosly have something against that dude that wrote this article.... :)
But seriously man where are the spelling errors?
Just show me one :confused:
 

jakethasnake

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He edited his shyt. Good. Nothing against him, per say - I just hate lazy dudes who can't take time to spell things correctly. I think he called Chinese women "Jineeze" in his initial post. LOL. :D :rolleyes:
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
He edited his shyt. Good. Nothing against him, per say - I just hate lazy dudes who can't take time to spell things correctly. I think he called Chinese women "Jineeze" in his initial post. LOL. :D :rolleyes:
Don't bother Jake. Those two people are 1 in the same. Just did an IP check.
 

SMOOCHY

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since when is spelling a prerequisite for nabbing hot blondes, like they're going to give you a spelling lesson or something, and even if the girl does see that you can't spell and can actually spell herself, what not a great way to have her feel motherly and be drawn into helping you "spell better," -nothing like a few late night lessons.
 

PeeGee

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Change your hair colour? I know I have my hair coloured but to use it as a means to look unique? Isn't that pushing the 'I need attention/seeking approval' idea?

If you colour your hair it should be because you want to do it. But otherwise, I agree with this a lot :D
 
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