"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Telling one plate about your other plates?
- Thread starter Crissco
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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There's nothing to lie about. You're not doing anything wrong. Nothing. You want to keep her mind always busy with thoughts of you with other, more attractive, women. This will only serve to have you in her mouth and anus whenever you want.
If you "come clean" or get caught lying about it, you're only serving to push her mouth onto another dude's c0ck.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I can tell it turns them off in a way, but keep coming back because im good at what I do, and my looks and humor im sure helps.
Karma what you said in your last sentence is what got my thinking to write this.
Falcon, one girl comes over one night, another a diffrent night, they really dont have a chance to see each other. Unless I can get a threesome out of it
Im talking more about just bringing it up to them, then them asking a question. If they ask I never lie, no reason to since im single.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don't think saying it's none of their business would turn out well because it'd be like I'm being too defensive. Def not gonna lie about it. Saying yes just seems too direct.
Ideas?
Don't think saying it's none of their business would turn out well because it'd be like I'm being too defensive. Def not gonna lie about it. Saying yes just seems too direct.
Ideas?
EDIT: Uh, wow, I hit the quick reply button twice. No idea what happened. wtfff
Do you also tell your mommy every time you do something bad?Crissco said:
Seems to me you me that you get the impulse to say things that you should keep to yourself and this impulse is based on fear.
It can be the fear to appease people, be on the good side of people, feel more liked, feel approved etc etc. It can be many things. A leak in your game that you need to fix.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Hit the nail on the head bro. Also comes from insecurity and being in the moment. And it also gets me amped up for the night to look forward to it more.f283000 said:
Good post....Give me an example of acting like? Texing people in front of other girls with a ****y grin..?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I never brag to a woman about anything I have or possess. I know they see it. I don't have to say it. Would Clint Eastwood talk about other women? Or would he just act like he has other women? There's a big difference. MEN LOSE WOMEN BECAUSE THEY TALK TOO MUCH.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I already do that. I never put a women as shes above me. And there are always others.Falcon25 said:
The less you say the more you gaiin. Exactly bro. I know all of this, You did answer my question for the most part, the only other thing is my plates dont see eachoher, unless I plan something where there going to be at and I take one plate with me.
Thats why i suggested texting plates while ur with another girl. Raises her suspecting about who im talking to.