"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Telling her you like her

Victorious Maximus

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Makes the whole thread a bit redundant really, doesn't it.
Nah, I don't agree. I learned a lot, especially from the link you sent me. And what doesn't apply to this woman can be a whole different story with another lady.

Thanks for the replies fellas!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Darth

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Victorious Maximus said:
So far so good but then she tells me my intentions are not clear for, that i am a mystery. Even better so! And then she asks me: are you in love with me. To which is neither respond positive nor negative.
My gut-level response would be, What kind of a silly question is that? Come on, let's go home.

In other words, not trying to play games, but simply giving it the correct label of "silly question."

Hope this helped.

-Darth
 
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