"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

telling a girl you just wanna be friends?

T

tony-montana

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2007
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
so i know we hear that a lot from the girls. but this time i'm feeling like i need to tell this girl im seeing that same line. i just never felt strongly about her. you know that really crazy attraction you have for someone you like and want? you chase her cause you want her so bad? i don't have that feeling with her. shes nice and all but theres no sexual attraction for me with her. apart from that is good but yeah. if i keep dragging it on, would probably be worse. you need sexual attraction no?

should i just string her along and be friends until i meet some other girl i can be with?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

D

Diaforetikos

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2009
Messages
411
Reaction score
24
Location
Northern California
Dood, look down at your genitals. Are those testicals? Well what do you know... Your a man! Now man up and tell her your not attracted to her.

Women beat around the bush. Dont be a woman because we already have we have women for that.
 
S

seagull

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
280
Reaction score
1
A woman wouldn't hesitate to put you into the friends' basket if it suited her.

Just do it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

T

tony-montana

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2007
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
yea just hope she doesnt run off cause i wouldnt mind being friends still.
 
J

Jack-Torrance

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2007
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
NO! NO! NO! STOP.

Do NOT friendzone yourself. If at some point in the future you change your mind and go nuts over this girl, you will get rejected and feel AWFUL.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top