"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Techniques on girls by race

LADawg49

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As an Indian dude, ive dated women from diff races but due to my preference, I've happened to date mostly black women and here are my tips for those who date/prefer black women.
- Keep things light/funny, do not bring up race unless she mentions it. Keep your mouth shut unless itll help your cause and that goes for dating women of all races.
- I know im gonna get bashed for saying this, but I would keep kino to a minimum. In other words, do not touch her, let her touch you. From what I heard from friends and have observed, most blk women are turned off by guys that only think of sex and who don't want to get to know her as a woman. In addition, they are afraid of guys from other races just using them for sex but not taking them seriously.
- Ask her questions about herself, do not talk about other women, do not brag about yourself which also goes for dating women of all races
- Go for the kiss on the second date like with any other race of woman.
- Be yourself, do not try to act like 50 Cent, Snoop, etc.
Bottom line is, from my experience with black women, I would recommend following Doc Love's principles instead of David DeAngelos.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IsiMan84

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This probably doesn't matter, but Indian like from India or Indian like Native American?
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by LADawg49
- Be yourself, do not try to act like 50 Cent, Snoop, etc.
hahahahahha

man that's funny stuff there

you made my day :crackup:
 

LADawg49

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im Indian like from India, im US born and raised though..
 

IsiMan84

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Ah. Well the Kino thing worked for me (before I learned what it was) and it was the same with a white girl so I figure that works on anybody...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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