"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Snowyk

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Doing what you are doing and watching your mate is a good start.

To develop the skill further, start practicing. And I don't mean on just gals you are trying to pick up. Tease your friends, your sister, your sisters friends, your mum, the girl who sits next to you on the bus, cashiers, waitresses and so on.

In other words, practice on EVERY woman you see/speak to/interact with.

Try to pick out funny things in conversation and misinterpret them, and then tease her about having a dirty mind.

If you are going to do cold approaches of it. Pick out some non-physical characteristic and tease her on it.

Teasing a chick about her weight/face is NOT a good idea.
(A drunk mate of mine has done it once, he wound up slapped and wet. Funny to watch though)
Basically its just practice practice practice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Another thing you should keep in mind is that you shouldn't tease everytime you see a certain girl. Try to establish some rapport with her when you feel that it's the right time. There was this time when all I did was tease a girl non-stop whenever I saw her (which was almost everyday). She didn't take me very serious when I tried to get some rapport going.
 

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Originally posted by HammerSmashedFace
Another thing you should keep in mind is that you shouldn't tease everytime you see a certain girl. Try to establish some rapport with her when you feel that it's the right time. There was this time when all I did was tease a girl non-stop whenever I saw her (which was almost everyday). She didn't take me very serious when I tried to get some rapport going.
That's true, you have to find a good balance between teasing and actual rapport building conversation.
 

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I got the same problem, I can copy my friends but I got no material of my own. I could probably recite theoretical basis of their behavior but couldn't come up with my own stuff to save my life. Theory is good but it's also important to have "chops", actual behavioral routines. I think that's where rolemodels and mentors come in.
 
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