"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teaching english in asia, who can help me?!?!

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teaching english in asia, who knows anything about it?

Hi Guys,

I would love to leave to Japan or some other country in the region to teach english in september..

Its a great way to learn aboutna new place, and in this case, to make good cash.

Who here has taught english overseas? Was it helpful to sign a contract with a school beforehand? Did you pay to get a TESOL certificate?

How was the experience overall?

Thanks.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds nice, Do you know Japanese tho?
 
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are you referring to the "teach english in japanese schools" and live/stay for free...which would be on the countryside?
 
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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
Sounds nice, Do you know Japanese tho?
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There are lots of programs you can apply to that send you to Japan and pay you to teach English to kids, and they actually prefer you don't know Japanese. All you need is a degree. The most presigious (that I know of), as well as highest-paying, is the JET program. But their interview process is supposedly a bit grueling and picky, and you have to apply MANY months before the semester starts (August-September?).

There are some programs were literally all you need is a 4 year degree. But they don't pay as much.

And yeah, unless you apply to a program like JET and interview REALLY well, you'll probably be sent to the countryside instead of somewhere like Tokyo. But I hear there are trains that go from the rural areas straight to Tokyo.

Also, supposedly they do pay for room and board.

I've learned this all from a friend who plans on doing this after she graduates this semester, btw. She's tried to talk me into it (I just graduated), but I don't think it would be right for me....at least not now.
 
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I've had a couple of friends that went to Japan to teach English. They went through an international head hunter and taught for actual companies. It worked out well because all of the people already knew English, they just needed to understand our colloquialisms, business terminology and business customs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TESOL is 2 grands from what I hear.


Whut up JB? Haven't heard from you in a while. We thought you were dead. What's crackin?

Still with your girl?
 
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