"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I say dont bother getting a tattoo. Do something else to make yourself different or unqiue. I read an article saying people with tattoos lack certain personality characterists. This could be the reason why they get tattoos maybe.; to make up for what they are lacking in other parts of there life/personality.


My girlfriend has tattoos and im indifferent to them. I just found that particular research interesting.

Im not sure if you are a guy or a female. But if you are a female why get a rose? The five common tattoos for females are butterflies, dolphins, hearts, fairy's and a rose.

If you are a guy getting a rose tattoo, thats completely gay.

If i had to get a tattoo i would get a cross on my lower bicep going into my forearm. I think that would be an awesome tattoo. Im not going to get one though. Plus everyone has a cross tattoo.
 

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I don't think everyone gets a tattoo to be different or unique. Look at all the dudes running around college campuses with their Greek letters on their hips or whatever. Or the guys with their army company crest on their ass. People get tattoos to show they're dedicated to something, that they have respect for part of their heritage or their life... all kinds of stuff. I'm getting one because I like being Irish - I don't in any way think this makes me unique, I just like that I'm Irish.
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Why would u wanna do a tattoo? I'm just curious..
Well as I mentioned in a previous reply here, I got a temporary tattoo or a rose a while ago and it looked better than what I thought it would look like, and the add-ons that I spoke about will hopefully make it look really nice.

And to those who think its gay, I don’t really care if you think its gay;)

The tattoo will have things that resemble the things that I am passionate about, it will describe the kind of person I am, AND it looks really nice.

Heart - Love

Rose - Passion/fire

Woman - Self explanatory;)

Tribal - This is just a touch to it to make it look nicer. I'm not going to have it stand out like in the pic I posted of it, that’s more like where the woman will be, but a touch of it just to add that little bit to it.

I went to the tattoo place yesterday to ask them how much they think that it would cost & all, and they told me that it would all add up to about R1200 WITH colour etc, so I could get it done today if I want, but I think I’m going to wait till the end of the year:D


Laterz...
 

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I want to eventually get a female centaur just above my left ankle...IF I can ever find a design I like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I want to eventually get a female centaur just above my left ankle...IF I can ever find a design I like.
Sounds kewl... let us know when u find one:)


Laterz..
 

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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Sounds kewl... let us know when u find one:)


Laterz..
I've been saying I'm going to get one for 10 years and haven't yet.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I've been saying I'm going to get one for 10 years and haven't yet.
lol... well then get one already!:D


Laterz...
 

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My good friend and new wingman is also a tattoo artist, and he's just begging to put some ink on me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by animal crackers
I got this about 6 months ago. Looking back I sort of regret it, but I feel it represents what I'm all about...

You like d*ck? :confused:
 

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animal crackers: yikes! lol... what on earth made you get a tattoo of a penis? hehe:D


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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If it's not a Harley it's a hardly...
What?! Harleys hardly work there sister. I'd much rather ride then constanlty look for overpriced parts for my broken overpriced hog.

Tats are phat when I move to Miami I'm getting Janus wings on my shouler blades and a mettalic red and blue Honda 1000RR to match them:cool:...and smoke Harleys...which isn't hard because they're always on the side of the road.:D
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
What?! Harleys hardly work there sister. I'd much rather ride then constanlty look for overpriced parts for my broken overpriced hog.

Tats are phat when I move to Miami I'm getting Janus wings on my shouler blades and a mettalic red and blue Honda 1000RR to match them:cool:...and smoke Harleys...which isn't hard because they're always on the side of the road.:D
Crotch rockets are gay...and Harleys are sexay.

That is all...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Crotch rockets are gay...and Harleys are sexay.

That is all...
Well I do like the v rod...but only this one. Funny I rag on Harley's but this near 40K bike is my absolute dream bike. A custom v-rod with aprilia suspsension and dual head lights.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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