"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tattoo

Shiz Nizzle

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I'm going to get a tattoo. Probably on my right side, between my hip and under arm.

I want something kinda scary ,crazy, wicked but not gross.

Maybe like a skull, with flames and snake coming out of one of his eye sockets.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WhitePimp

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That's a cool place to get one. Tattoos are addictive as hell
 

Abbott

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Think about what areas of the skin will not be covered up, if you were to wear a suit. Don't get any tattoos there (like the back of your hand or neck, face, etc.).

If you want a tattoo, that's fine. Who am I to judge? But think of when you might want a good job. Especially if it's a corporate environment.

Just a suggestion so you don't have to bother removing the tattoos later.

My $.02,


Ben
 
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