"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tangled Up

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HAHAHA I laugh before I even type

I know the easy solution to this ditch and switch

but here we go anyways

I got back in contact with a girl from my high school days
we hadnt talked in years

she was married I was asking how she liked it just casual conversation
it starts to progress and she ends up telling me shes divorcing her husband
and by this point weve been talking more and seen each other on occasion
and she is giving me all the signs.

In no way did I encourage this divorce I wasnt trying to steal this woman but
inevitably she left him and got with me.

The problem is

She has never had her chance to go out and have her own social life away
from the person she was with. Now she is making friends and wants to go out
with them which is cool, but when I say hey I'd like to kick it with you all
once.
She gets all super female on me and starts trying to work her female mojo
telling me that she doesen't think well get along and yada yada.

It's not an every week thing or nothing and really isnt a problem my ? is should it be a concern.

Im 22 and this six month thing is the longest one i have ever had so Im just looking for some outsider views.

My thoughts are she is using my opinionated personality as a cover up for the fact that every once in a while she wants to get away from me and is afraid ill tell her to take a stroll if you want a break.
 

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Phyzzle

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Yeah, you don't have to drop her, but dissappear a little and get a social life of your own.

Hang with friends, go to clubs, don't invite her. (Your friends wouldn't like her.)
 

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Phyzzle said:
Yeah, you don't have to drop her, but dissappear a little and get a social life of your own.

Hang with friends, go to clubs, don't invite her. (Your friends wouldn't like her.)

Feel that one already in the works. I have been breaking rules kind of testing how much truth they still hold.

I guess I played by em so long I questioned em. MY BAD GUYS.

I been giving her too much of me. Let her get a chance to remember what she can lose very easily.
 
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