"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tampering with the idea of getting into "porn", as in having sex in front of the lens

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Yeah, I've been considering it. Sex with lots of hot women(and I am aware with ugly women as well, so I'm not being naive). Does anyone here know how to get started? Now, I don't know how true this is, but I heard when you first enter the business, you have to mess around with guys..but I can tell you right now, if that's the case, then I sure as hell can count myself out, because there's NO WAY I'm becoming sexually intimate with other men..I don't care how much I'm offered.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I keep thinking that if I just put up a web cam in my bedroom and let people pay to watch my girlfriend and me, I'd be a porn millionaire...without the genital warts.
 

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edger said:
Yeah, I've been considering it. Sex with lots of hot women(and I am aware with ugly women as well, so I'm not being naive). Does anyone here know how to get started? Now, I don't know how true this is, but I heard when you first enter the business, you have to mess around with guys..but I can tell you right now, if that's the case, then I sure as hell can count myself out, because there's NO WAY I'm becoming sexually intimate with other men..I don't care how much I'm offered.
Are you in the Los Angeles area? That is pretty much the prime area for porn. I'm in the Santa Monica area 10 miles from LA and I see all the time many many hot porn chicks around. It really is a mecca for hot chicks out here. And damn do they love to Fvck. Even just the normal ones.

Is this an economic decision or strictly one because you want to try and fvck hot porn chicks.
 

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If you have the means to do it, go for it. I'd love to have sex with some of the women I see on film, but the catch is it wouldn't just be ME having sex, it would be me, the director, camera men, and many other people who I don't know.

It looks nice when you watch it, but you'd have to be one of those guys who can concentrate on the act in the face of many distractions and pressure to perform. The guys making money on this stuff don't care about your feelings and you're of no use to them if you have difficulty.

What if they ask you to do a DP where you'll come in close contact with another guy? I just don't have the nerve or desire to go through that. The sex isn't worth it to me.
 

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AAAgent said:
are you okay with the fact that your face will become a public figure and that maybe when your dad, kids, relatives watch porn they may come across your face?

Hey isn't that uncle edger??!?!? wtf is he doing in this.......

The catch is that in order to make the accusation, they have to admit they were watching porn, which no one wants to do.

I think that most nephews would be telling all of their friends because it was cool. "Fvck yeah! My uncle's a porn star! That rocks!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's a few companies in NYC you could audition for, but it's difficult to get into. You do have to be able to get and maintain an erection on set with the crew there, stop when they need to stop shooting, f#ck in many awkward and uncomfortable angles and cumm within a couple of minutes of when they want you to. They may have you take viagra to help stay erect. You should have good enough length so that it's visible in the insertion shots and generally be in decent enough shape, clean and smell good.

Othwerwise it's a dream job. like Tom Byron once said. "You walk in, and there's a hot 20 year old girl, with t1ts pointed to the sky. Her hair is professionally done and she's been professionally made up. Then you have hot sex with her. And the best part is, when you're all done, as you walk out the door, they hand you a check."

I looked into it once on a horny whim when I was in my 20's. Got the same response: "Are you willing to do gay?" I wasn't. But they were nice enough to talk to me a while and fill me in. Wait a sec... That sounds wrong. I mean, they clued me in. Whew.

Another way to break in is to find a hot girl who wants to get into porn, and be her sole partner (because she doesn't want to take chances getting diseased). Then she gets you into the business that way, and maybe you go from there. She probably will. There's also gang bang production companies you can go to that look for anonymous guys to film. But be willing to do scenes where other guys are spurting and some of it's landing on you, or where you're doing sloppy seconds or thirds, and be rushed, if you can get it up in a room full of naked d1cks.
 

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Hmm, this is an interesting solution to going through some dry patches. :D

You probably will have to toss another man's salad unless you find a hot girl who wants to do porn too. But then again, why would you take the hot girl with you to do porn in front of other people? Why not just turn her into a fvck buddy and have sex with her in private?

Unless you like getting your ass tickled and spanked by the director while the cameraman gets so close to your penis going in and out of a bleached ass-hole that you might as well teabag the cameraman.
 

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The Bat said:
Hmm, this is an interesting solution to going through some dry patches. :D
Exactly, that's why I'm interested.:D Not to mention also, what greater way is there to make money than having to f*ck hot women? I'd still keep my current job, but I'd do porn on the side. And if I made more money with it, I'd ditch my current job.
 

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Mr. Me said:
There's a few companies in NYC you could audition for, but it's difficult to get into. You do have to be able to get and maintain an erection on set with the crew there, stop when they need to stop shooting, f#ck in many awkward and uncomfortable angles and cumm within a couple of minutes of when they want you to. They may have you take viagra to help stay erect. You should have good enough length so that it's visible in the insertion shots and generally be in decent enough shape, clean and smell good.
That's not a problem at all. It doesn't take much at all to get me hard. And I can easily c*m in 2 minutes. And my package is very well a good size, as I've been told numerous times.

Of course I'd rather f*ck in private, but f*cking in front of the camera isn't a problem for me...not at all.
 

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One of my exes from 7 years ago and I did www.livejasmin.com for a couple weeks. We could make 120 bucks an hour but it was spotty. She was a slut so it was all normal for her but I bailed after word started getting around. She continued to do it for another month with another guy after I left.

Basically you set up a webcam in your bedroom and you and your girl lay on the couch fooling around and if you catch someones eye they chat with the two of you and then you take it private and have sex.

Go to the website and you can browse dozens of couples and see what it's about.
Yeah I've thought about setting up my own website before and hiring women to get naked in front of the camera, and charging people to join my site. But I think I'd rather be doing the f*cking.:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are some ugly women in porn too. They're not all hot. There's actually some pretty nasty ones. I guess some men like certain ones but i'd hate to touch a lot of them.
 

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you have to own your production company to make money in porn. Men get paid very poorly compare to women. Women earn much much more money.
 

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I watched a documentary about ron jeremy, he said the pay is awful for the guys, which makes complete sense.
 

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Get into production. The producers are banging those broads off set and making more money then anyone else. Not to mention the gonzo flicks and amatuer websites.

Takes a bit of cash to set it up, but once you are going you are going. What does a website charge for membership? Like 20 bucks? If you had 2000 subscribers, you are making 40 clips a month. If half of that was going towards producing new content through the month, the other half would be in your pocket.

****, I make it sound so easy :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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