"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tall/regular body/boney arms

DoItAgain

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Anyone else had/have this problem? I'm 6 1, 165, and my upper body and arms are boney as hell. My stomach and legs, other than needing to be tightened up, are fine.

I'm looking to just get upper body/arm strength.

http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn103/omg_stunning/fittest/healthiest-david-duchovny1.jpg

That's ultimately the body I'd like to have...not overly muscular, but a man's body.

I'm signing up for the gym this week. Not sure what type of exercises I should be doing? I have a low tolerance for pain, so perhaps machine exercises might be better?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DoItAgain said:
Anyone else had/have this problem? I'm 6 1, 165, and my upper body and arms are boney as hell. My stomach and legs, other than needing to be tightened up, are fine.
LOL. That's what you think. At 165 and 6'11" I doubt your legs are fine.

I have a low tolerance for pain, so perhaps machine exercises might be better?
For now you do, but eventually you'll get used to it and miss it when you don't have it. Assuming you don't go overboard. You want a very slight but dull pain in your muscles after a workout.

Machine exercises are good for isolation. If you say for example, have small biceps, then do some machine exercises to focus on the biceps and bring them to a nice size like the other muscles.

Also good for recovering from injury. The great thing about machines is that they limit your range of motion. Perfect for recovery exercises after an injury.

Not so great for muscle building.

Do compound exercises for overall muscle building and add in some machine exercises at the end of a workout to really focus on a muscle or two you want to grow a little faster.
 

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I'd like to have bigger arms overall, not just biceps. I'm not sure how much bone mass I have to work with though. I have women's model like arms.
 

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It was an example of how to use a machine effectively. Lots of people use them as their main exercises, this is not the way to build muscle efficiently.

Use compound exercises, supplement with isolation exercises.
 

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DoItAgain said:
Anyone else had/have this problem? I'm 6 1, 165, and my upper body and arms are boney as hell. My stomach and legs, other than needing to be tightened up, are fine.

I'm looking to just get upper body/arm strength.
6'1" and 165? Sweet baby Jesus!

I'm 5'8" and 185, eat some food man!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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