Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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progressive1

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i cant dance but i can grind the sh$t out of a female and stay in rhythm with the beat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DoctorLW

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I'm 6'1 200 lbs, and I don't consider 6'2 very tall either. Once you get to 6'4 and up I'd say you are talking pretty tall. I see plenty of guys who are taller than me...

One thing I did notice is that when I was on the east coast I was taller than a lot more people than where I am now (midwest), so perhaps region has something to do with it as well.

Still 6'2 is a very good height and you should be happy about it... not worried. As someone else stated though you need to fill out that frame. You might look taller than you are simply because at 160 you are a beanpole.
 

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i wear wife beater muscle shirts all the time in the summer. women of all shapes and sizes like wut they see. that throws me off because i agree i am a slim dude. i know how to balance the equation though.
 

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L777 said:
Very productive. Keep it up :rolleyes:

6'2" is taller than about 90% of the guys out there dumb arse
Uh, visit Lithuania. They make the Dutch look like midgets.
 

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I'm about 5'10'' - many guys taller, many guys shorter, it doesnt matter.

My friend who I go with to clubs sometimes, he is 6'2'' and like 230lbs (mostly fat though). But that's actually perfect height for clubbing, pretty tall, but not a giraffe. I would not mind being 4 inches taller but I'm okay with my height already.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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