"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I have a probly talking to people. i know I know read the bible I have I been reading it before i signed up knew about it since early summer just never registered. anyway I just have a probly talking to girls. usually HBs less atrative chicks I dont usually have a problem talking too. But its very hard for me to approach and talk. What should I do
 

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practice makes perfect, only way to get better if you really want to is to go out there and try it.
 
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Go out and try it for yourself. Like they say practice makes perfect.
 
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Do a search for "nouning."

Short version: You quickly identify the nouns in their sentences, and then use those to ask questions.

Ex.

Me: Where do you live?
Her: I live out in Coopersville.
(The noun being Coopersville, I'll elaborate)
Me: Oh really? That's pretty far away, is it hard to drive so long every morning?
Her: Oh, not really, I'm used to it.
Me: So have you lived there long then?
etc etc. You build on what she says.

I also find it's useful to create a common link between the two of you that she can identify with. ex. to me that actually happened today.

HB: (comes up and starts talking to me about something)
Me: Oh, you're Porky's B1tch right? We met at the halloween party.
HB: Yeah! You were the fat guy (I dressed up as the State Puff Marshmellow Man).
Me: Yeah. I retained some of the weight.
HB: (her laughing and poking me) haha, you sure did.
Me: Sexy ain't it?

You should really go practice though.
 
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