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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Talking to women with large age difference

gonnamakeit

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I am a teenager and look about 14 years old should I still go for women who are like 25-30 just for the practice because I cant find many girls close to my age for practice (like one or two a day) or maybe just short convos with them?
 

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Try whatever your comfortable with, if you in a big city and you know there won't really be any reprecussions to a random approach and getting shot down, then go for it. You are likely to have a very low success rate considering you said you look 14, and you talking about 25-30 year olds. But if you are never gonna see those women again, then whats the worst that could happen.

But If you a teenager(guessing 16-17 or so) then I would say shoot for 15-22 y/o girls. You might have a shot with a couple in the 20-22 y/o range, but it will be hard to match their maturity level. Most girls date older guys as it is, so I would find it really hard to believe you could 16-17 and have much success with a 25-30.

But I have been proven wrong before, but if you are really 16-17, and approaching obviously older women, you best bet is to at least lie and say 18-19. If they ask to see your ID, then just play it off with C/F, like say "Wow your afraid you gonna take advantage of me already and I just met you."(in laughing, sly smile kind of way.)
 

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I am a teenager and look about 14 years old should I still go for women who are like 25-30 just for the practice because I cant find many girls close to my age for practice (like one or two a day) or maybe just short convos with them?
Always be working on your game even if it's the lady at the walmart
that's 30. Yeah sure you might get the your too young for me look
or she might even say it. But that's ok because your just practicing.

If you got skills now
your way ahead of most guys.
 
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