"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Talking To Girls In Public Spaces/Settings

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Micheal Moon

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Do you guys have any problems with this? I mean yeah, I can approach girls in quiet settings (food court, library, bustop etc). What I'm talking about is when people are around.

Its something I'm trying to get over. I just find it hard to approach girls when there is other people listening to the conversation. In orher words, I don't like having an audience.

The other day I was in school and this girl WAS looking, but it was a quiet lounge with people studying and although I would normally say something I didn't. She was giving me IOI's too. Of course as usual you wait to long the girl leaves which is what happened.

Thoughts?

I could use some pointers on what you guys do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Drag her alone and talk.
Say like... "you guys don't mind if i borrow your friend for a minute, do you?"
and grab her hand and get her alone somewhere.
 
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who cares what other people think, you could drop dead tomorrow and they will not stop to think who you were. wath is wrong whit you wanting to know a new pretty girl. you have very much to win and nothing to lose.
 
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Yeah I sometimes feel the same way. There's this girl I really like who works at this tanning place. I'd love to just walk in there and chat/flirt with her for half an hour, but there's a waiting area right beside her desk and it's just too ****ing awkward to be hitting on her in an otherwise completely quiet room with other people there listening in.

I know I shouldn't give a ****. But I do.
 
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Question: when you pull her away from her group of friends, what's the first thing you say to her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you do it ONE time without giving a f*ck about other people's perception of you, you'll overcome this anxiety.
 
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Themanthatcan said:
Question: when you pull her away from her group of friends, what's the first thing you say to her?
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It depends on the location. If I'm at a bar I ask her to help me pick a song from the jukebox or mention that I've seen her a few times before at the bar(maybe tease her and ask if she is stalking you). If it's somewhere else ask for advise or something involving the location...its an easy ice breaker.
 
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