"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Talking louder or stopping to continue?

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Disagree with Sneevox.

The reason that women are difficult to deal with today is that they have been trained by us to be disrespectful, and that includes talking over us.

We are by nature women's guides and authority. Just as we would teach a child to avoid interrupting because it's impolite, we must teach the same to the women we deal with. They are running roughshod over us these days because we expect nothing from them as long as they'll surrender the pvssy.

Let them talk to their girlfriends that way. When she talks with me, she needs to show respect by not talking over me. That's a non-negotiable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you really don't want to be interrupted, be creative about it.
Something I do is when people interrupt me and I want them to shut up and listen, instead of talking louder, I'll talk quieter. I'll get down to a whisper. This arouses curiosity and makes them want to hear what they can't hear.

It's also not nearly as annoying or douchey as yelling or simply talking over them.
 
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