"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking the right steps

thecraftylefty

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Temptation is a bastard.

Wanting to act in ways that you know you shouldn’t, and that are harmful, and that you’re used to because it’s safe to is a bad thing.

“I should do this because this has always been my routine.”

But it’s gotten you no where.

“I like things the way they are. I’m comfortable living an easy life.”

Easy is for weak-minded people. Challenge yourself. Push past your boundaries.

“I read this stuff and apply some of it, but some of you guys are off your rockers.”

No we’re not. We see what we want and do what it takes to achieve it. It’s called ambition and drive. Get some.

“I like the way my life is.”

Either you’re lying to yourself, or you have no ambition in life. You have become too dependent on the typical “don’t do more than you have to” mentality. It’s a bad attitude to have. Not many successful people will want to be associated with you. It’s a fact. You reap what you sow. Sow some good seeds and let them grow. Let them develop into little you’s. That will be your testament to this world.


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Great post. Its all true.

I believe in pushing yourself all the time. Its not always easy trying to improve, but you just have to hardenup and do it. :)
 

Duke

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Crafty, I needed this post right now. You truly are one of the unsung heroes of the forum, as SenorFingers pointed out.

-Duke
 

thederekeffect1

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Some people come here and say that people here are "off their rockers" because they don't want to admit that we're right. When we say "stop giving women everything they want" they think "wow, this website is turning men into *******s". When they should be saying "Dude, my last girlfriend left me for one of these guys".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by morry
Great post. Its all true.

I believe in pushing yourself all the time. Its not always easy trying to improve, but you just have to hardenup and do it. :)
Maan... sometimes a guy just has to learn to chill... who really wants to be a workaholic or a selfimprovementholic with no end point in sight? Chill...
 
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