Taking the next step with my teacher

[chellikwaja]

I haven't been on here for quite a while. Been trying to work on improving my self mainly with academics and working out(I'm a skinny bastard). So far so good. My entire frame of mind has changed. I'm far, far more outgoing, and far more optimistic about everything.

On to my teacher. She's maybe thirty or so, I'm 22. We've had great rapport lately, I make her laugh, I neg her, and recently started talking with her about more intellectual stuff. So this thursday, I went to her office to ask her about a paper. I talked with her for about an hour or so and after we left to go to class. On the way there, she kept repeating something, thinking I didn't understand her, I said something snarky to her, she giggled and went to hit my arm in a playful way, only to stop midway with a look on her face like she caught herself doing something she shouldn't have.

Now I know for a fact that she finds me attractive. She's said it throughout the whole year. Asking me once if I didn't want to be filmed because I was too goodlooking, and then Wednesday asking what my heritage is because "I'm very handsome". She chats with me before class (with others around) and two classmates even commented once at a party that she seems to flirt with me.

But, I'm not sure how to go on. I don't know how to kino her when all my classmates and all her colleagues are around. What I'm thinking, is that for her to ever act on anything, she would need to be in a situation where she doesn't feel like she is the teacher and I'm the student, with others observing us. I can't keep lagging behind after class to speak with her, or go to her office everyday, for only several minutes of conversation not related to class. That seems really creepy.

If anyone has any suggestions, I'm all ears.

Edit: I just remembered that yesterday she made a bet with me about something in our book that she taught us, I claimed it wasn't in the book, came back home and found out that it wasn't in either semesters book. I called her on it today. So I'm thinking maybe getting her to hold to the bet somehow, like she owes me lunch or something. Suggestions?

 

[OFWHAP]

With all the available girls around campus, do you really need to focus on your teacher? If something happens, then it happens. However the last thing you want to do is screw things up and be on her bad side. Do you really need for your teacher to get fired for having an affair with a student? If it appears obvious in class that there is something going on, do you want other students reporting to the dean that the teacher may be giving you preferential treatment? I'm not saying she's off-limits in the end, but don't screw anything up over one piece of p*ssy.

 

[Mistic]

Next time you are alone with her, ask her what the school policy is for dating students. After she gives you the answer, say, "I guess we're going to have to be really discreet then." Give her a playful little smirk.

 

[chellikwaja]

With all the available girls around campus, do you really need to focus on your teacher? If something happens, then it happens. However the last thing you want to do is screw things up and be on her bad side. Do you really need for your teacher to get fired for having an affair with a student? If it appears obvious in class that there is something going on, do you want other students reporting to the dean that the teacher may be giving you preferential treatment? I'm not saying she's off-limits in the end, but don't screw anything up over one piece of p*ssy.

I'm almost positive that teachers can date students here, as a different teacher of mine made a reference to that last semester. But I'll try and find out if it's a no tolerance issue here and if it is I'll not pursue anything.