"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taking it too far?

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It's-Me

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I've been getting this reaction from some girls lately. I have trouble telling if they're just playing or really hate me.

I'll be ****y with some girls and they start hitting me, but at some point they really start flipping out and I just tell them to calm down. I really can't tell if they're playing or if they actually hate me and I'm pushing it too far.

Any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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just pay attention to when they go gorilla on you, also try different methods, i love to experiment with girls and see how they respond to different things, see if that works

insanity is believing you can get different results by doing the same thing over and over.. dont be insane
 
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you should stop being C&F when they start flipping out... maybe a bit before then. There's also a difference between C&F and just being an *******... are you sure you're doing it right?
 
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