"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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taking hours to reply a text

pyros

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Hi.


Could we say that a girl's interest level in you is proportional to the amount of time she needs to reply to your texts?


I mean, in my short experience I've texted many girls and the ones that never took more than an hour or two two reply were the ones with whom I had something. On the other hand, I've texted some girls that needeed hours or days to reply, and it never went anywhere so I guess I should next any girls that take hours to reply.


One question. Did you ever banged a girl that took hours to reply to your texts? I mean, a girl that seemed not to have a hight IL but in the end she changed her mind or god knows what, so you end up banging her in a month, or maybe a year later, whenever.




Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MisterD

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Have I ever banged a girl that took a ridiculous amount of time to reply? Nope.

In part because she's not totally interested, I'm sure. But also because I only let something like that happen for a week or so before I eject and go NC
 

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Keep in mind that women play games too. Many of them will want to reply instantly, but will stop themselves so as not to appear too desperate.
 

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check my thread out, the girl really takes so long to reply but got naked the first time I met her
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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