"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Taking girls out in high school?

AlwaysSmile

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Hey guys whats up. Quick question is it okay if I ask this girl to the mall to hang out? I read somewhere that hanging out in groups or events are better but what if it was just her and me? I mean is that okay for a first date or is it gonna be awkward?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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do it man....wether it goes good or bad learn from it.,,make sure to read the good articles around here about talking to girls
 

NorwegianDJ

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Yes, its cool. You decide whether its awkward or not.

novaknight said:
Groups = friend zone.

One on one? Good job.
Groups =/= friendzone, but its less intimate and less awkward. Less risk, less reward.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IamJosan

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Go one on one but try to keep it fun! And remember to kiss close ;D
 
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