"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Taking advantage of whats in front of you. Social Proof.

j0504s

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The first girl I approach since my break up after two months(I just wasnt ready till Now), was an hb 8.5. I got her number good rapport...Last night I called her...we spoke for about 10 minutes. It ends up she has a boy friend...which she was relluctent to tell me till the end of the conversation...I verbalized I would not want to cause a rift in her relationship etc etc...and she said not to worry she wants hang out and be "friends" I said im cool with that...she invited me to hang out this weekend. she said "you are good looking and funny" "I would like to introduce you to my friends"

Ok. I am happy with this sittuation, for a couple reason...another pivet, and entry to other women...Here is the question. In the past i have had the "social proof" of being surronded by females...I am trying to rebuild this...What is the best way to take advantage of this sittuation???
Should I friend more women and bite the bullet for now, when i meet these girls just friend them and use them. towards that? Get them interested and dont sexually escalate (obvs if one of them is hb9-10 im going to)...I have been very effective in day game for a while...but honestly havent night gamed in a very very long time. prob in like 1.5-2 years (gf+day game sucess). What do you guys think?
Also i guess im asking what is most effective way to utilize the other women?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're right to understand the immense value of social proof.

I'm not qualified to offer advice on this because of our age difference, but it will be interesting to see how others respond.

Social proof raises a man's perceived value through the roof, and is one of our most effective tactics.
 

j0504s

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Atom Smasher said:
You're right to understand the immense value of social proof.

I'm not qualified to offer advice on this because of our age difference, but it will be interesting to see how others respond.

Social proof raises a man's perceived value through the roof, and is one of our most effective tactics.
I feel the fondation of the social proof is better in the long run, vs banging one of these girls and ruining it, Ill have to see...its worked extremely well in the past...I just want to see if there are better ways to utilize it then what i know of..."The world is how you percieve it"...One thing i found interesting most girls with boyfriend either dont give there number and if they do they just dont pick up...(this is my expierience)...I obvsiously intrigued this women...and this is deff. not me being ****y and saying she wants me, more of her seeing im a person of high value and self whorth, that shes willing to introduce me to a friend b/c in her head im a "catch" or something of that sort...or maybe she just wants to keep me around for validation reasons reguardless, i got the in to a group of women...time to capitilize.
 
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j0504s said:
I feel the fondation of the social proof is better in the long run, vs banging one of these girls and ruining it, Ill have to see...its worked extremely well in the past...I just want to see if there are better ways to utilize it then what i know of..."The world is how you percieve it"...One thing i found interesting most girls with boyfriend either dont give there number and if they do they just dont pick up...(this is my expierience)...I obvsiously intrigued this women...and this is deff. not me being ****y and saying she wants me, more of her seeing im a person of high value and self whorth, that shes willing to introduce me to a friend b/c in her head im a "catch" or something of that sort...or maybe she just wants to keep me around for validation reasons reguardless, i got the in to a group of women...time to capitilize.
Any input?
 
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