"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This last part is especially insightful. I used to think any attention like this was simping, but I flipped the paradigm in my head. If I'm getting laid, doing approaches, and have a stable of women at any given time, not to mention pursuing my mission, the time/energy for LIGHT texting etc. is minimal. But my focus is usually elsewhere and therefore she/they become my orbiters.
Exactly my point. The main question is : who simps for who? It always comes down to the amount of abundance a man has. Always.

Now OP is the mule and she dangles a carrot on a stick in front of him while she rides his back( not his D) .

The moment he cuts contact will hurt him more than it will hurt her..let's be real: if a man has ANY other form of female presence in his life this would be a very disposable contact. Otherwise he'll put all his money on her, and I know from experience that this is oftentimes a losing bet.

Cut your losses and move the FECK ON.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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