"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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take her away from another guy

DJ1234

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My question is, when a girl is talking to another guy that is not her boy friend but is almost like her boy friend (dating) and everytime you come within a 500 ft radius of her when she is talking with him and the guy gets all mad at you. How do you get the girls attention and get her to talk to you instead of the guy she is talking to?
Basically what would be a good way (c+f) to pursue a girl that is busy talking to another guy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You could try standing behind him so he doesn't notice you, but within earshot, and then attempting to mime the key words in what he's saying in the stupidest looking way possible like in this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j617-Yv5lMQ. You will have to be a quick thinker though. If your young chances are the girl will start giggling and eventually pissing herself laughing and the guy will think it's at him and lose confidence. Then you step in and introduce yourself.

A mate of mine did this the other day, but it was with people we already know and was just goofing around so isn't field tested to work with strangers. But feel free to try it out. Who knows? It might work.

Alternatively you could just go up to them with a confident posture and throw out some DHV stories/routines till he buggeres off.
 

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thanks. yeah that doesn't sounds like a bad idea, but I don't know how funny that video was...I guess I could try that sometime but it would have to be good, otherwise it could be alittle weird. And yes I do know this girl and have talked to her a little.
 
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