The Package
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* I posted this as a response to friends first however I really would like to highlih\ght the point I made and see what you think.*
Alright, lets be honest, not many of us are TRUE DJ's, that's why we are here, I am a self professed RAFC. However this was not always true. 6 years ago I was in the Navy, and I have to tell you I was "friends" with EVERYONE. Didn't matter if I liked them or not, it got to the point when I walked in the bar I had 15 minutes of hugs/handshakes. fully 75% of my GF's AND basic one nighters were what I call "referal" sex.
This is one of the fundamental issues I take with this board. SS is fine, this is a slower secondary route that will produce more fruit than you can imagine with almost zero effort. I think the NEXT is passed around far too quickly. Female friends should be an imparitive (sp?), think about it, REALLY think about it. You have a rather unguarded test platform for your skills. As long as you know what the word subtle you should be fine.
Remember the more female friends you have, the more you can get into their head, the more you understand how THEY percieve things, and consequently, the better you get.
Consider this:
- We know what really works, who they really go for, what a women really needs to maintain a high interest level
- We know what we want
- None of us truly "understand" women
If you are still unconvinced think on a more strategic level: For as long as there has been recorded history their has also been spies, moles, sleepers, whatever. WHY IS THIS?
Answer: To truly know your target you must learn to understand your target. Don't get puppy-dog, don't forget the readings or the bible, use them to adapt yourself to the environment.
Get a girl comfortable, be ****y, be vague, be however you choose but do not discount this tactic as weak. Towards the end of what I call my "Glory Days" most all of the girls I hooked up with were introduced to me by other girls, they were all convinced they knew a girl who would change me, or one I would really like. Several of my better friends were truly ugly girls, one was about 250 lbs. I ended up dating her HB9 sister for several months.
The more women friends you have, the more interesting you are to women. I admittedly have been out of the game for several years, and am trying to become much like I was, but the one thing I remember is the absolute importance of having more female friends than male.
So, in closing, take her out, be her friend, flirt with other girls in front of her, flirt with her. IF you determine you want her, find out what she wants/needs and SLOWLY begin to incorporate that into your game. Depending on how good or comfortable you are let her in on a couple small DJ secrets, but not too many. She will go apesh1t for that. Always remember though that is this is a slow game, and is secondary to your others. Discuss dates with her and why you NEXT'd a girl, they see this as opening up emotionally and, just do it.
Call me a tool if you like but one of the most important things you can do is build up confidence, how better to do it then having test girls everywhere you turn? You want to be a true DJ? Learn your target, learn how they think, and learn their individual weaknesses and exploit them. This, my friends, is the art of war.
But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.
Alright, lets be honest, not many of us are TRUE DJ's, that's why we are here, I am a self professed RAFC. However this was not always true. 6 years ago I was in the Navy, and I have to tell you I was "friends" with EVERYONE. Didn't matter if I liked them or not, it got to the point when I walked in the bar I had 15 minutes of hugs/handshakes. fully 75% of my GF's AND basic one nighters were what I call "referal" sex.
This is one of the fundamental issues I take with this board. SS is fine, this is a slower secondary route that will produce more fruit than you can imagine with almost zero effort. I think the NEXT is passed around far too quickly. Female friends should be an imparitive (sp?), think about it, REALLY think about it. You have a rather unguarded test platform for your skills. As long as you know what the word subtle you should be fine.
Remember the more female friends you have, the more you can get into their head, the more you understand how THEY percieve things, and consequently, the better you get.
Consider this:
- We know what really works, who they really go for, what a women really needs to maintain a high interest level
- We know what we want
- None of us truly "understand" women
If you are still unconvinced think on a more strategic level: For as long as there has been recorded history their has also been spies, moles, sleepers, whatever. WHY IS THIS?
Answer: To truly know your target you must learn to understand your target. Don't get puppy-dog, don't forget the readings or the bible, use them to adapt yourself to the environment.
Get a girl comfortable, be ****y, be vague, be however you choose but do not discount this tactic as weak. Towards the end of what I call my "Glory Days" most all of the girls I hooked up with were introduced to me by other girls, they were all convinced they knew a girl who would change me, or one I would really like. Several of my better friends were truly ugly girls, one was about 250 lbs. I ended up dating her HB9 sister for several months.
The more women friends you have, the more interesting you are to women. I admittedly have been out of the game for several years, and am trying to become much like I was, but the one thing I remember is the absolute importance of having more female friends than male.
So, in closing, take her out, be her friend, flirt with other girls in front of her, flirt with her. IF you determine you want her, find out what she wants/needs and SLOWLY begin to incorporate that into your game. Depending on how good or comfortable you are let her in on a couple small DJ secrets, but not too many. She will go apesh1t for that. Always remember though that is this is a slow game, and is secondary to your others. Discuss dates with her and why you NEXT'd a girl, they see this as opening up emotionally and, just do it.
Call me a tool if you like but one of the most important things you can do is build up confidence, how better to do it then having test girls everywhere you turn? You want to be a true DJ? Learn your target, learn how they think, and learn their individual weaknesses and exploit them. This, my friends, is the art of war.
But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.
