Tactical Issue: If Target is not interested I move on and I don't befriend her!

[MaxPayne]

Aight so this kinda happens with me often, If am chatting with a girl and I get the feeling that she is not interested, I do not try to make her a friend I just move on, which I feel is not the best move to make!

I mean, I could befriend her and have her become part of my social circle, but I somehow just don't manage to do that, I feel like in order to avoid this from happening I have to keep chatting her up until she starts showing CLEAR interest and thus I'll show her back. Otherwise I dunno, I feel like I could highly benefit from those beautiful girls being part of my social circle!

Any tips, comments or references to articles are welcome!

Cheers

Max Payne

 

[The Mad Ghost]

IF she's not .......HOT, and I mean drop dead gorgeous HOT.

There's no point in befriending her for Social Networking. Anyway, if she wasn't interested in ANYTHING about you, what makes you think she'll be interested enough to be involved in you SOCIALLY.

You're still going to need to get her .......CONTACT DETAILS someway.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

You're putting the cart before the horse.

Usually, the social circle begets the girl. This is the natural way to come together. It is for this principle that the odds are against you on cold approaches, but you do it for the hell of it. Anything worth doing well, is worth doing poorly until you can learn to do it well.

Making friends with girls that you want to sex is a deadly sin among our ranks. The easiest way to get into an LTR is to make new friends, then meet the girls, and the girls' girls. Referral marketing on an evolutionary scale.

Of course, this is assuming you are marketable.

But you are right to move on from uninterested women. You're to be a stallion running across the desert at night, they catch a glimpse of your magnificence but they have to chase you to see it again.

 

[MaxPayne]

Fantastic thanks folks!

 

[horaholic]

Huge difference between being 'friends', and being acquaintances. I've banged plenty of girls I have known for years, but were not really 'friends' with. Also, you should NEVER truly rule a girl out, just stop putting forth any effort. That doesnt mean not being cool with them. If you run into them, be happy to see them, and have a smile on your face. At least that way, they wont talk shyt about you to their friends. Even if the girl doesnt want you, she should still think you are a cool guy, cuz 1: she may change her mind one day 2: She probably has friends 3: their may be other people around that will think you'rea a cool guy just seeing you talk to these 'freinds.'