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Originally posted by rgeere
It may or may not be true, but who really gives a flip.
First of all, there's a difference from saying that it "might" grow back in "some" cases under "certain" circumstances (none of which there is any evidence of in the first place) and saying that if you don't have sex for a while it will grow back. That's simply not the case.

Second, you provide two links that do absolutely zero to back up your claim that hymens will grow back even in SOME cases if a girl doesn't have sex. The first link you provided takes us to a plastic surgeon who will perform surgery to that effect, the other link takes us to a nurse who explains what a hymen is and what can cause it to tear. She says nothing about it growing back under any circumstances.

As for who gives a flip, apparently some of the guys on this thread who think it's funny that you're talking about the female anatomy without knowing what you're talking about... and probably some of the girls in central Asia and Africa who get stoned to death if they get married and their new husbands find torn or missing hymen. They would probably really love it if they could "regrow" their hymens.
 

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I think it would be funny that there are people out there that believe everything that they hear, which is why I am not being offended by people assuming that this is never the case when I know of atleast one instance where a woman's hymen did in fact grow back. Maybe she was just a freak of nature or had some sort of odd genetic trait. I don't know.

But like I said, I'm not sweating about it, and I don't have to gain anyones approval about it either. Keep believing what you want to it is not going to change my mind any.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
I think it would be funny that there are people out there that believe everything that they hear, which is why I am not being offended by people assuming that this is never the case when I know of atleast one instance where a woman's hymen did in fact grow back. Maybe she was just a freak of nature or had some sort of odd genetic trait. I don't know.

But like I said, I'm not sweating about it, and I don't have to gain anyones approval about it either. Keep believing what you want to it is not going to change my mind any.
Hey, nobody's forcing you to believe the truth. If you want to think that hymens will magically grow back if a girl doesn't have sex, you're free to do that. You're also free to believe that babies come from storks or that you can get a girl pregnant by kissing her.

Of course, we can continue to ridicule you for believing that.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Hey, nobody's forcing you to believe the truth. If you want to think that hymens will magically grow back if a girl doesn't have sex, you're free to do that. You're also free to believe that babies come from storks or that you can get a girl pregnant by kissing her.

Of course, we can continue to ridicule you for believing that.
And I can just continue seeing people as bigots and idiots, too. Turn abouts fair play in my book.

Comes to think of it maybe I was wrong about the regrowing thing. I was reading one of the links I put down and it says that a diffrent size penis can retear stuff inside of the vagina. I guess mine just happened to have been diffrent enough to figure that was the case.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
Comes to think of it maybe I was wrong about the regrowing thing.
"Maybe"?

I posted two links that affirmatively indicate that you are wrong. If you hadn't slept through your sex ed class, you would know that you are wrong.

You have given nothing to back up your claim that a hymen can grow back if a girl stops having sex except that you think you might have heard it somewhere maybe from someone but you're not sure where and you're not sure who said it and since that's what you choose to believe, everyone should accept it as a valid and legitimate idea. But it's not. It's stupid.
 

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the outside lip is swollon. you all know this right? i dont see how the thing inside terring will make the outside swollon.
 

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Originally posted by Salduchi1785
the outside lip is swollon. you all know this right? i dont see how the thing inside terring will make the outside swollon.
If the outside is swollen, then I stand by my statement that you got her real hard and she wasn't used to it.
 

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gio, i want to be in with the in crowd... will you pay for me to have my hymen regrown together so you can take my virginity? hahaha
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
were you home sick the day they taught sex ed?

penkitten nailed it, pay no attention to her "swollen" crap its chick nonsense. Just reply "oh" and go back to eating breakfast.
This guy is right, it's her problem so stop pretending your all experts, nobody knows what the problem is
 

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Salduchi -

Vaginal lips swell in much the same way thay penises do -- blood is allowed in and not much is allowed out.

Regulation of it probably isnt perfect, so it IS reasonably possible after some intense sex. Ever been semi-hard for a while?

Sounds like she's just whining though, as penkitten suggested.
 

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Then again...

Did she come?

If she didn't, maybe she's hinting about that.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
gio, i want to be in with the in crowd... will you pay for me to have my hymen regrown together so you can take my virginity? hahaha
Seems like we could spend that money on something more fun. Like hotel rooms and porn.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Seems like we could spend that money on something more fun. Like hotel rooms and porn.
then would you buy be the new dvd "stripperobics"?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
then would you buy be the new dvd "stripperobics"?
Mmmm... stripperobics.
 
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