"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mahon83050

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Hey, I just started swimming at the College Pool.

I have been doing the crawl stroke and it is tough. The crawl stoke is the most common exercise for those who do not know. One extends their arms over their head (right, then left) and keeps their head down flat in the water.


How good is this at getting yourself muscular?

I know one is supposed to keep their head face down in the water and turn their head up every 4-5 seconds to breath.

I am having a hard time with this part.

Any pointers?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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seanchai

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Don't turn your head to breathe, this will just tire you out and throw off your line. Try breathing with the roll of your body instead. Your strokes should come primarily from your hips, so your arms should be at full extension when you're on your side. It's easy to breathe from here.
 

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I dont know about muscle, but I do know its a hell of a work out. I do it with my scuba fins occasionally to kick my ass. Trying to kick with those Scuba Pro Jet Fins is like swimming with a 2 x 4 tied to your foot. Try the fins if you get a chance for a different feel.
 

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Hey, if you know it, you should try doing a butterfly stroke. THAT's a workout!

When you turn your head to breathe for front crawl/free style, try sucking the air in like a straw really quickly so you don't waste time having your head turned. Breathe out when your face is underwater by steadily blowing bubbles with your nose when you're ready to breathe out. Repeat. It takes getting used to, but once you get the hang of it, you're pretty much set. :)
 
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