"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SuperBowl Sunday

SheDevil

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We are hosting a small get together for the SuperBowl this Sunday.

I want to make it nice:

So far the menu is:

*Beer
*Soda

*Hooters Hot Wings (already ordered)


What else? 7 men attending

I tend to lean toward fruits and veggies or other "non-manly" things. Help me out, what should I serve?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal

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Pizza
Subs
Chips (and lots of dip!)
 

sfalexi

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Order some pay-per-view sleazy halftime thing. I don't think it's the lingerie bowl this year, but something from the creator of girls gone wild or something.

Alexi
 

CableLight

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Here's what me and the buds have:

- Beer (duh)
- Chips: Potato(regular), and Corn
- Salsa
- French Onion Dip
- Nacho cheese
- Sunflower Seeds (blow me, I'm from the Midwest)
- Pretzels

For halftime, a friend suggested using this little Hibachi-style grill he has to cook some burgers/hot dogs outside our dorm. Charcoal style...Mmmm.

<EDIT> Go Eagles...Not that I'm a huge fan, but I haaate the Patriots.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SheDevil

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Got my list!

I never thought of subs, pizza or heating up the grill.

Just perfect, thanks so much!

Be safe!!
 
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