"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sup everyone new hear and need some advice

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So ive been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks now and we bond really well... she is a beautiful girl and of course im interested in her...as you know by my name i am the nice guy and am shy to make a move without being certain...ive read all these articles on the net about "10 steps how to know if she is interested in you" and others like that and they all point to her being interested, but i would rather hear from real people and what they think on my situation....everytime we hang shes always smiling and laughing the problem i have is she has spoken about this "one guy" but gave no info on him what so ever so made me wonder if shes trying to get a reaction out of me... idk its hard for me to figure her out and would like some help if anyone can offer any!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Error. Not enough info.

Anyway, as Mr.Nice Guy, don't supplicate and don't be too available, and importantly don't ruin the beginning. That is, keep it flirty and sexual (while not being creepy, a mistake I see here a lot) and move on this B sooner than later, else your opportunity will have passed. And stop worrying about some no-name. You don't own her. Make her want you. And don't just be another sounding board 'girl' to her. Tick, tock.
 
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I can tell from the first sentence you have been friendzoned.

Listen here NiceGuy and remember this for the rest of your life. Girls like to be lead, they are attracted to leaders. So you need to be bold and make your move on this chick. Whether you are successful or not you must remember that your time is valuable. Way more valuable then money... keep that in mind.
 
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