"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Had a movie night with a coworker of mine, his girlfriend and a few of her friends tonight. They like watching Indie films and we found one tonight called "Suntan". It's on Netflix.

Holy. Sh*t.

There's been a-lot of personality disorder threads posted on SS over the recent months and I know some members are probably getting sick of reading about it but if there was ever one movie that accurately portrayed what falling for one of these women can do to a man - this movie is it.

Story is about a Doctor who falls in love with a younger woman. It's all there: the idealization, push/pull, devaluing, discarding, his breakdown, etc. This movie really struck up some strong feelings in me and would be worth a look if you've got some free time this holiday weekend.

Over and out, fellas.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well that was a messed up Film but still good.
 
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