"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sunglasses DJ tool Kit or Not??

HighResurrection

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I heard David Deanglo say that sunglasses are great for attraction because hiding you eyes raises your social status.

My question is would sunglasses be good to take on a date or would this just make the girl uncomfortable?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Very debatable.. I personally hate talking to people while they have sunglasses on. Feels like they're behind a wall.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Aviators are pretty cool. Like someone said, they might serve as an "obstacle" as far as the way you're perceived, but why wouldn't this also add a layer of mystery? It makes people work harder towards gaining your attention.

It's pretty synonymous with a rocker look as well; badass, in other words.

http://celebritywonder.ugo.com/mp/2008_RocknRolla/2008_rocknrolla_016.jpg

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljb12z0bcG1qamdmw.jpg d

http://s3.hubimg.com/u/357922_f520.jpg

The things you own...end up owning you.
 

TheMale

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i know that when people see you pupil and when it's getting bigger then it's really attractive (if i refer to all the reading i had on body language) when you have sunglasses you trying to hide from something

i personally have sunglasses but when it comes to talking to people i just take them off
 
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