"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Darles Chickens

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Word up!

Am now 8/10 and should get the rest tonight as i'm off out in a bit. The last four i got sine my last post have varied in length.

One was on the train back from London today and had a conversation going with a middle aged Aussie lady for pretty much the whole journey which is around 1 1/2 hrs. The conversation revolved around her visiting this country and the differences between Australian and the UK. It was pretty good and i was well pleased with the fact that we were both keen to keep the convo going at various stages.

Others have included two women at the hotel i was staying with over breakfast. What they were in London for, where they were from and general chit chat.

A salesperson in a phone shop about hb:6.5 that started off with me asking if girls fascination for talking on the phone all the time had developed into an addiction hence the working in the phone shop. Could have gone either way that opener but she laughed and found it funny and i took the conversation from there.

Lastly i had to ask a guy for directions in London and he was going near where i had to go and it turned out he's from the same city as me so we were just chatting about where we both lived etc. Small fvucking world.

Interestingly i've had more people initiate conversations with me also and i feel i give off a more positive and open vibe then before. It's all good at the moment!!

DC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Darles Chickens

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Am done 10/10

Got 9/10 when i was out last night opened a girl who was next to me at the bar. She was a cute looking hb7 and i stopped and chatted for a while as she was waiting for her friends to arrive.

10/10 was actually this morning as i was out playing tennis. I was there earlier than everyone else so asked another guy who was warming up if he wanted to knock up. We ended up talking for a while after about sports and tennis with wimbledon being on at the moment.

Am really pleased about this week and happy that most people have made it through. Next week should be more fun and am looking forward to talking to girls i would like to fvck then old women on the train. Still its been a great experience so far so lets keep this up guys!

DC
 

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Its been 2 more, since my last post. 6/10, I have to take it up a notch this evening because I am going to make it.
 

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Its done! 10/10 I decided to go for a walk untill I got all my conversations done, one of them was a man walking with 2 dogs, he was very easy to open when I commented about his dog. (Why are all men with dogs such friendly creatures?) When I told him that I wanted to have 2 of my own when i'm moving out from my parents basement. He immidiatly began talking about the special dog training and tournaments he has done, and how much time you have to invest in a puppy, I agreed and before I knew it we had been talking for 20 minutes.

Now to begin with the reading for tomorrow.
 

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Alright awesome job guys. Looks like everyone got though this week. (cept coffin but honestly don't think he was seriouse bout this). Yestarday was good for me I did like 4 more convos that I will count. Also got more ones that don't count. I had a great day yestarday I achieved a goal that I have had for years and is more improtant to me than this bootcamp and tougher to achieve which really ups my confidence for the bootcamp. The goal involves what is my passion that I am planning on one day being the best in the world in. Most people haven't beleived it. I have been sure it will happen for years and yestarday started showing that it's getting closer and soon people will be forced to beleive. (might post more about that later).

Also another awesome thing I was waiting on a line with a hb (in her 20s) behind me. I opened her, nothing special just wow this line is moving slow. She ignored me completly didn't acknowledge at all. (stick with me for a sec 2 get to the awesome part lol ). The awesome part was that 1. I opened her
2. I had absolutely NO inhibitions about opening her was totally calm and confident in doing it and 3. I had absolutely no emotional or any reaction to her ignoring me I did not care in the slightest at being "rejected".

I am excited good job everyone it's going to be another great week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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