Well, I managed to get this senior's number. We've been texting and talking in school for a couple days. I suggested that her and I hangout this weekend, and she agreed. However, she get's off work around 8 so it has to be something that can we do later during the night.
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Suggestions for a first date?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
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Just have her over to your house and put on a movie or something like that. Just don't pick her up and say "I don't care we can do what ever you want." Girls hate that line.
Honestly watching a movie in my bed on my laptop has worked best for me, and is hands down the best for escalation.
Alas:
24 DATING IDEAS TO KEEP THINGS FUN
by Mark ****erell
As you all know, there are many factors in dating. There are many important things to learn and practice.
Once you apply the tips in this newsletter, before long you'll start getting dates regularly and often. It's important to have some ideas of where to go on a date.
Here are just a few date ideas I've come up with and use. Hopefully this will give you some help if you are struggling to come up with some ideas.
Even if you've been dating someone for a while, it's important not to get stuck in a rut. Always keep things new and fresh. I'm sure there are many more places I haven't mentioned, but these are my most common date places:
* Lunch at a restaurant
* Coffee date
* Bowling
* Workout date - walking or light weightlifting
* Go to the park - to walk, exercise, picnic, play with the dog, whatever
* Play putt putt golf
* Go to a concert
* Go to a sporting event - basketball, baseball, football, hockey, etc.
* Go to a movie - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Dinner at a restaurant
* Go to a party together
* Go to a dance club
* Go to a comedy club
* Go to a funny show or play
* Go to an adult arcade
* Go on a double date - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Play racquetball - it's an easy sport to learn
* Go to church
* Go to the casinos
* Go to the drive-in
* Zoo
* Play cards or games together
* Halloween - haunted houses
* Christmas - look at Christmas lights or go to shows
That's all I can think of right now. I hope that some of this helps out. Just remember to mix it up a little bit and don't get in the same routine every single weekend. Be different than the rest of those other boring guys out there.
Hopefully you can use some of these ideas if you're stuck or just want to mix things up a little bit. They have worked well for me.
I would like to thank Mark for submitting these dating ideas. Remember, when dating you always want to be fun, interesting, and unpredictable. Use your imagination and do not do what every other guy does!
Allen Thompson
[email protected]
http://www.sosuave.com
Alas:
24 DATING IDEAS TO KEEP THINGS FUN
by Mark ****erell
As you all know, there are many factors in dating. There are many important things to learn and practice.
Once you apply the tips in this newsletter, before long you'll start getting dates regularly and often. It's important to have some ideas of where to go on a date.
Here are just a few date ideas I've come up with and use. Hopefully this will give you some help if you are struggling to come up with some ideas.
Even if you've been dating someone for a while, it's important not to get stuck in a rut. Always keep things new and fresh. I'm sure there are many more places I haven't mentioned, but these are my most common date places:
* Lunch at a restaurant
* Coffee date
* Bowling
* Workout date - walking or light weightlifting
* Go to the park - to walk, exercise, picnic, play with the dog, whatever
* Play putt putt golf
* Go to a concert
* Go to a sporting event - basketball, baseball, football, hockey, etc.
* Go to a movie - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Dinner at a restaurant
* Go to a party together
* Go to a dance club
* Go to a comedy club
* Go to a funny show or play
* Go to an adult arcade
* Go on a double date - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Play racquetball - it's an easy sport to learn
* Go to church
* Go to the casinos
* Go to the drive-in
* Zoo
* Play cards or games together
* Halloween - haunted houses
* Christmas - look at Christmas lights or go to shows
That's all I can think of right now. I hope that some of this helps out. Just remember to mix it up a little bit and don't get in the same routine every single weekend. Be different than the rest of those other boring guys out there.
Hopefully you can use some of these ideas if you're stuck or just want to mix things up a little bit. They have worked well for me.
I would like to thank Mark for submitting these dating ideas. Remember, when dating you always want to be fun, interesting, and unpredictable. Use your imagination and do not do what every other guy does!
Allen Thompson
[email protected]
http://www.sosuave.com
According to your profile on here you're 15 and you're already managed to get a date with a senior who is probably 18 years old? GOOD JOB.
Honestly though... is she hot? Either way, well done.
Girls don't like going to the cinema for a movie on the first date, because according to them there's not much you can do other than just sit and watch a movie.
If I were you, I'd invite her over to your house and watch a horror movie or something.
Honestly though... is she hot? Either way, well done.
Girls don't like going to the cinema for a movie on the first date, because according to them there's not much you can do other than just sit and watch a movie.
If I were you, I'd invite her over to your house and watch a horror movie or something.
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Yeah, she is pretty attractive. I have no problem talking to the girls and stuff. It's just after. We had to reschedule, so we're going bowling this weekend. Thanks for the advice, totally forgot about the bowling alley haha.Wolfbones said:
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Master Don Juan
Just invite her to your place to watch a movie. She'll know what's up if she accepts...if she shows up and you don't bang her I'll be disappointed.