Suddenly my desire for the girl is decreasing

[nelysses]

I met a girl from Instagram.
I feel like we are really meant for each other for 2-3 weeks. Even though I don't use any of these tactics, she loves me. When I talk to her, all my masculinity is replaced by childishness, but she smiles and only seems happy. She is jealous of me, etc.

But sometimes I feel like my feelings suddenly disappear. We will return from vacation in 1 month and meet up, do you think it will be fixed then?
It could be because of masturbation, but even if I masturbate less, I have the same problem.

 

[holidayad_]

2-3 weeks and you're already thinking she's the one?

You need to check on a few things, man.

 

[Glassguy]

Sometimes I wonder what this forum has become in terms of posts like this.

 

[JayAce]

i see op is only 20 but yeah

 

[JayAce]

i know right now this seems like it’s important and your hormones are probably going crazy, but op please believe this is literally nothing. you’ll learn this w time

 

[nelysses]

i know right now this seems like it’s important and your hormones are probably going crazy, but op please believe this is literally nothing. you’ll learn this w time

2-3 weeks and you're already thinking she's the one?

You need to check on a few things, man.

I don't think she is one.
I just think she is worth it.

Also..My dad met my mom when she was my age. Why not?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I don't think she is one.
I just think she is worth it.

Also..My dad met my mom when she was my age. Why not?

Go ahead and give her a whirl then. We all need to fall face first onto the concrete occasionally, so as to learn not to step into potholes. Nothing any of us can say is going to convince you that your visceral reactions to this chick are merely sensations, rather than objective truths

 

[corrector]

The issue is simple. You are losing desire for her because she is not presenting any challenge to you at all. She says she loves you, is happy and giggles, and frankly, it just looks like the novelty has worn out and you are already tired of her. You wrote on another thread, when a woman desires you and is into you then you lose interest with her. You want what you can't have, not someone who is too available to you.

Based on the trajectory, you'll have no interest with her. From what you describe to her it sounds boring. I could get the same thing watching an ASMR video if it's like how you are describing. At least I can turn the video off when it's too much. You can't shut her off like that when you get annoyed and tired with her. Get someone you genuinely like, not just to have a "checkmark".