"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sudden loss of interest

nikko49

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i searched and although this should be a common topic, nothing.
so new thread.

question:
what can cause someone to quickly lose interest in you? (vague, i know.)

this happened to me about a month ago and i kind of want some reasoning so i don't do it again
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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crazyman11

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giving her too much of your time/attention


That's what happened to me. I gave this one girl too much time/attention when she didn't deserve it and she lost interest in me
 

KontrollerX

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There's tons of possible reasons as I'm sure you know but I'll list a few.

-Could of been you were the rebound guy and the chick just pretended to be your girlfriend for a while so she could get some ego gratification and company until she was emotionally ready to seek out what she really wanted.
-Maybe you screwed up and went AFC somewhere on her during the relationship but she was attracted to the DJ guy you initially presented to her not the guy you really are.
-Maybe she met someone else and perceived him to be the better deal and brutally dropped you to persue this.

Anyway if you want a more informed analyzation on our parts were gonna need the whole story of course bro.
 
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