I live in a somewhat smaller city within a cluster of suburbs with at best a moderately active night life. Dating opportunities are modest at best, and "sleeping around" isn't really possible because of the small population size.
Unfortunately, this exacerbates the existing problem with women's dating advantage. There was one woman in one of my social circles who I'd see semi-frequently. She literally looked like the beast in beauty and the beast. I wish I was exaggerating. She literally thought she had a chance with me, and msged me on Facebook, asked for my number and approached me every time she saw me.
I hadn't seen her in probably two years but just saw her recently. She has a boyfriend! She has slimmed down considerably and is almost passably attractive. I thought of her as "undateable" before but she might be a borderline 6 in our neck of the woods. Frightening.
I know two other girls who are at best 5's who have dated or at least hooked up with multiple guys both in our social circles but they've also been approached by random strangers. One of them also is close to the "undateable" category by any objective standard of looks but she has hooked up with some of my friends who are average looking and quite successful career wise.
Believe it or not, these sub 5 girls are actively rejecting above average looking guys with successful careers.
I can't make this sh-t up. I want to think of black pilllers as scammers, rejects and malcontents but there are too many examples which confirm their views to reject their ideas completely.
Unfortunately, this exacerbates the existing problem with women's dating advantage. There was one woman in one of my social circles who I'd see semi-frequently. She literally looked like the beast in beauty and the beast. I wish I was exaggerating. She literally thought she had a chance with me, and msged me on Facebook, asked for my number and approached me every time she saw me.
I hadn't seen her in probably two years but just saw her recently. She has a boyfriend! She has slimmed down considerably and is almost passably attractive. I thought of her as "undateable" before but she might be a borderline 6 in our neck of the woods. Frightening.
I know two other girls who are at best 5's who have dated or at least hooked up with multiple guys both in our social circles but they've also been approached by random strangers. One of them also is close to the "undateable" category by any objective standard of looks but she has hooked up with some of my friends who are average looking and quite successful career wise.
Believe it or not, these sub 5 girls are actively rejecting above average looking guys with successful careers.
I can't make this sh-t up. I want to think of black pilllers as scammers, rejects and malcontents but there are too many examples which confirm their views to reject their ideas completely.