"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Suave Man vs Suave woman

iwanttofight

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It seems to me that a suave man and a suave woman would never get the opportunity to hook up and have sex with each other. They would be too busy trying to gain the upper hand in the relationship. "You can't bullsh*t a bullsh*tter" is a good example of this. They would know each others agenda's and it would be an emotional chess match.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TonyBaloney

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Thats an interesting thought - but is there really such a thing as a suave woman?

I tried a post on evolutionary biology to thrash out thoughts on a topic like this but no one responded...... My basic thoughts are yes, male DJ's exist in human nature, and will spin multi plates....for sex (with a subconscious thought of passing on seed)...... A woman would never do this for an extended period of time JUST FOR SEX (utmost on a womans mind is getting pregger, and she wants a provider to dedicate resources, and not random men walking in and out)..... there would have to be some other benefit, such as keeping a wealthier but beta husband/partners and keeping a stud on the side (i've been that stud before) but i've never heard of a ss woman who just does it all for sex with a number of equal male plates spinning like a dj spins equal female plates....... your thoughts?
 
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