"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suave Man vs Suave woman

iwanttofight

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It seems to me that a suave man and a suave woman would never get the opportunity to hook up and have sex with each other. They would be too busy trying to gain the upper hand in the relationship. "You can't bullsh*t a bullsh*tter" is a good example of this. They would know each others agenda's and it would be an emotional chess match.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats an interesting thought - but is there really such a thing as a suave woman?

I tried a post on evolutionary biology to thrash out thoughts on a topic like this but no one responded...... My basic thoughts are yes, male DJ's exist in human nature, and will spin multi plates....for sex (with a subconscious thought of passing on seed)...... A woman would never do this for an extended period of time JUST FOR SEX (utmost on a womans mind is getting pregger, and she wants a provider to dedicate resources, and not random men walking in and out)..... there would have to be some other benefit, such as keeping a wealthier but beta husband/partners and keeping a stud on the side (i've been that stud before) but i've never heard of a ss woman who just does it all for sex with a number of equal male plates spinning like a dj spins equal female plates....... your thoughts?
 
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