"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stumbling Block

Shane278

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My stumbling block at the minute is after i ve chatted with a girl 15-20 mins, i feel like im running out of steam. Im building rapport/comfort but im going no where from there. It happened twice last night where i failed to lead.

I dont use routine/material so i know i should be isolating and increasing kino around this time span.

The 1st girl (7.5) was a 2 set , things were going great, kino was good but i exited after 10-15mins, thinking back i should of invited her to our table.

The 2nd girl (8.5) i opened her at the bar lasted 20 mins, but due no to escalating from my behalf, her ug friend came over then so i made my excuses and left, kino was poor here.

Any advice so on how to make or break the set after this time span?
Thanks guys....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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