"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Student Loan Options

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I need some options/information for obtaining student loans to cover my tuition for the next year or so.

I need options/info about loans that DO NOT require a parent as the cosigner. Also, FAFSA does not work for me.

Basically, I need some loans that would be on MY SHOULDERS only, and that could cover my tuition expenses.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Federal Loans are the #1 source for this, as the gov. backs them. Not sure what you can and cannot qualify for, as they're based on you and your parents financial aid eligibility to pay. Meaning, if your parents have significant assets, you may get none.

Private colleges tend to offer more, just because they got cash to burn. State schools are more liberal to their own in-staters, to women, to poor folk, and to minorities.

In order...

1. Federal Loans (based on need as determined by the FAFSA; if you're not a dependent of the parents, then you can get one on your own credit and you'll get them regardless.
2. Private loans (bank of america, etc). These are done based on INCOME verification. I.e. if you have no income, no or little loans. You can cosign with parents and get a higher amount. I got as high as 16k when I needed it, Dad cosigned and I pay.
3. Personal loan, unsecured, like credit cards. Not a good option, as rates are going up and they're not usually FIXED rate loans. There's no backing of an asset that they can take, so rates are higher. Still based on income and credit history. No Deferral.
4. Credit Cards. Must have credit history first. Rates are high. Not fixed, but they do work. Limit might not be high enough to keep borrowing for a full year. And payments must be made NOW. No deferral.

It's a catch-22 pal.. Federal Loans require the FAFSA because that's how need eligibility is determined. And if you have low/no income, then shouldering loans is impossible (aside from FED, unless you got Real EState personally owned). I got Bank of America loans since Fed. Aid only met so much and my dad had to co sign to cover the income part. After grad they became mine.

Thing is, any OTHER loan you get is likely not to be deferred, which is why EDUCATION loans are nice, because they offer deferral. Non education loans will require payment TODAY, so if it's a substantantial nut, you'll have to work anyways or have some1 pay it.

I know this because I've been the borrower and the advisor. I've helped my bro, myself, family members, and clients. Education is a tough spot...kids need their parents in most cases, esp. @ expensive schools, unless your'e willing to work full-time.

That's just the basics...but talk with an accountant or financial planner, or someone who has done it before you proceed. Know the laws, the requirements, how the rates work, the period, penalties, and when payments are due (deferred or immediate). I see kids get screwed, because they get the money and don't know when payments begin. Or don't know the rates aren't capped really.



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Thanks man.

I'm thinking that an Unsubsidized Stafford Loan is my best bet.

In terms of dependency, what determins whether I'm a "dependent?" I do believe that my mom still claims me as a dependent (my health insurance, for instance, is taken care of by her).
 

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You're either INDEPENDENT based on AGE or if you're parents EXONERATED you (released you @ 18.) While you're considered an adult, you're not an independent otherwise.

Out of their home. Off their tax return. On your own. Own income, etc. Your own health ins, etc. It's normally as young as 18, as old as 22 (so I think that's automatic age).

Financial Aid requires the FAFSA, though the loans are in your name, because it's federal program and you must show eligibility, there's no other way but their way. Much like a mortgage ap and credit check show whether you can pay/afford a certain home.


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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