"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stuck with a HB. Need a break up tip.

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There is a sexy babe i had spent time with we have done it all and ti seems she had became addicted to me or my way of treating her(while having sex). I cant still make it out if she is a gold digger cause she had always refused my gifts though it was very precious ones. Some girls are long players they dont settle for less. But i m in a situation where she is acting very fragile I need the pro DJ`s to help me from this one.
1) She is saying she had fallen in love with me and cant let go of the feeling.
2) She is constantly trying to hurt self to win my simpathy so i should talk to her
3) Her sis calls me up and let me know of her situation is going bad and worst.
4) My problem is that i cant marry her.
5) I had never said to her that i love her.
6) I had used a lot of alternate lines to give an answer to her line ie.
She: I LOVE U
me: I miss u
She: I LOVE U
me: Take care dear .
She: BUT I LOVE U
me: Well I know but i cant u know i have a problem.

7) There is a false thing which i had cooked up u people would not be intrested in knowing. By that thing i wont be marrying to any person.

8) HELP ME: i m all ears. and any suggestions are most welcome and i would keep on updating by trying out any suggestions.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DeathDealer

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dude stop saying "I can't" Say I won't or No I don't want to, but saying "I can't" is what weaklings do. You say some girls are long players, wtf are you idiot? You're playing her right this minute.
 

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She's playing you.Give her a hint that you need some money for something and then ignore her.When she calls, tell her that you're busy trying to figure out how you're gonna pick up on some money and you'll talk to her later. You stop calling her. Let her call you. Let her see you with another gal. If she gets pissed, tell her that it's just business. Stop being a stupid ass trick for that *****. SHE'S PLAYING YOU.
 

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This woman needs professional help. You claim she hurts herself due to her love for you? Ok that is emotional blackmail and you need to get away from her real quick.

Don't fall for the "I'm going to kill myself" shyt either. If she takes it to that level notify someone who can get her some help.

For her sister to be involved is just plain wrong!
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris
This woman needs professional help. You claim she hurts herself due to her love for you? Ok that is emotional blackmail and you need to get away from her real quick.

Don't fall for the "I'm going to kill myself" shyt either. If she takes it to that level notify someone who can get her some help.

For her sister to be involved is just plain wrong!
i agree!!
tell her that you dont want to be friends with her again until she gets professional help for her emotional problems.
that you can not take the drama and the stress.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrHarris summed it up well.... Just curious though... What is stopping you from marrying her? (not that i think u should or anything, but is there any specific reason?)


Laterz...
 
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