"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Strong Men Know what they want. Weak men are Wishy-Washy

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Don't be fooled by the title.. those are not MY words. Those are the words of an angry entitled woman.

Read the entire thing here: Link--> http://thetinkashow.com/strong-men-know-what-they-want-weak-men-are-wishy-washy/

The part that really made me laugh was this part:

"When the man is basking in the love energy of a woman he has made promises to or mislead into believing they have something more than just sex when he wants it no strings attached, he is actually stealing from her. He is stealing her affection, her time, her energy, her intimacy – all under the guise of being a potential long term boyfriend. He wants all the benefits of the kind of love and affection and open sexuality a woman shares with a man she trusts, but he does not want the responsibility or the accountability that goes along with it. SO he MISLEADS her." :cry: :cry: :cry:
Oh those poor, poor girls! But how is any of this different from the behavior of your average female? One could easily say: When a woman is basking in the attention, money, free meals, time and entertainment of a man she has shown sexual interest in or mislead into believing there is sex in the future.. she is STEALING FROM HIM.

I just find it hilarious how the modern female believes her time is more valuable and her needs more important than a man's.

Nothing new.. just a reminder of why this site exists.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As long as no men object, women will keep saying what they want , and change laws as they wish .
the city I live in is very pro-female views , men takes women opinions as facts.
Oh those poor, poor girls! But how is any of this different from the behavior of your average female? One could easily say: When a woman is basking in the attention, money, free meals, time and entertainment of a man she has shown sexual interest in or mislead into believing there is sex in the future.. she is STEALING FROM HIM.
women will answer you "No one owe you sex"
so your answer to women should be "no one owe you commitment" if that really your concern just ask before messing with the guy .
 

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the best thing that could happen to "entitled" women these days, is if we just laughed at their silly chit and walk away. Let them go without the attention they ***** for, long enough to set their azzes straight. They are way too spoiled these days.
 

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glass half full said:
the best thing that could happen to "entitled" women these days, is if we just laughed at their silly chit and walk away. Let them go without the attention they ***** for, long enough to set their azzes straight. They are way too spoiled these days.
Yup.

I actually think she is right; generally when guys want sex only there is some misleading behavior on their part. But, it is a level playing field and if women get to milk men for dates, dinner, attention, and monetary gain, then they cant cry when they get hoodwinked.

I think as 'enlightened' men we sometimes forget that the #1 form of currency we have with women is our TIME and ATTENTION. This is so easily given, and just as easily withheld. Just ignore them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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