"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Todd Preston

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SUBJECT:
Proficiency at Street Game or Day Game.

ME:
48yr, Tall, In Shape, No Baggage, Good Job, Full Head of Hair (thank the Lord).

SITUATION:
To further my education in this area i purchased some audio's and books regarding PU. Recently, I was listening to some audio ideas regarding approaching women on the street, department stores, coffees shops, etc (essentially day game).

I've been using it and approaching all types of women. However, i am Hot blooded male and of course, i like the Younger Tighter Models. These tend to be a little more difficult to get anywhere with though (i noticed). I've notice "they will give me their number" but a later hook up is tough. Older MILF types seem more receptive and amiable to meet ups.

TROUBLE
Getting the number is challenging but i'm averaging 1-3 numbers a week with no special trips outside of my weekly routine.

However, getting the hook up (date or meeting) has been tough (sigh). A lot of women just don't respond or fall off the map.

HELP
Any advice on how to perfect this Day Game? What am i doing wrong?




~TP
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well you are on the right track my man. You need to get the girls that are choosing on you. Face it man you gotta market yourself properly. You gotta be what they want. You have to be selling what they're buying.

What does a tight hot model chick want? Usually a good looking muscular dude with some clout, money, nice car, nice crib and excellent conversation. As women get older their standards lower.

A hot young model chick can have her pick of the litter. So you have to ask yourself, what are you offering? What is putting you above the rest of the dudes drooling over her all day everyday?
 

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Julian said:
What does a tight hot model chick want? Usually a good looking muscular dude with some clout, money, nice car, nice crib and excellent conversation. As women get older their standards lower.
Yep...this dudes got a handle on this...(Funny how they never taught us this in school).

Yep...the hottest BEOTCHES get the pick of the litter. Every Smuck and his SISTER wants to "Lick her Flower" and she knows it...(maybe she likes the girls too....so you get competition from them too..)

I've had my share of Young Pussay....but you always want more.

However, i can tell you that the younger chicks are a pain-in-the-ass. Always have been, always will be (unless you are a Rock Star...then you can get whatever you want).

Julian said:
You need to get the girls that are choosing on you. Face it man you gotta market yourself properly. You gotta be what they want. You have to be selling what they're buying.
Sounds like Target Marketing to Me. Find the Right Market..and Target them. Younger chicks tend to be Flighty, Delusional, Idealists and Un-Practical. I like the women in their 30's...
 
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What do u want from these chics...........just sex, cause most of them offer little more.

The best sex I have is always with women 30-40's. SUBTLE PERSISTANCE works wonders. You gotta earn the right to bang these chics, once you are in.......its like a back stage pass. Hotties have the highest flake percentage.

You seem to be pe-occupied with relying on your looks and not improving your game. LOOKS DO matter but without solid game skills.........you won't see any lasting improvement. I don't know your specifics as to your openers/texts/phone game.......I would conject adding A LITTLE SPICE TO mix it up a little more. Some subtle negs, a bit of C & F, have some fun, be a bit of a wild card, tease them about the age difference, or hint at how mature she is for her age.
 

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Gotcha Big Dawg....!
Some Old dude once gave me this quote
"Women...they're only good for One Thing."

I mentioned my looks to give everyone a glimpse of me. Not pre-occupied with my looks...just take care of them as best as i can.

BTW: That book you have a linked says that LOOKS play a Very "Intergral" Roll in getting women.





COD said:
What do u want from these chics...........just sex, cause most of them offer little more.

The best sex I have is always with women 30-40's. SUBTLE PERSISTANCE works wonders. You gotta earn the right to bang these chics, once you are in.......its like a back stage pass. Hotties have the highest flake percentage.

You seem to be pe-occupied with relying on your looks and not improving your game. LOOKS DO matter but without solid game skills.........you won't see any lasting improvement. I don't know your specifics as to your openers/texts/phone game.......I would conject adding A LITTLE SPICE TO mix it up a little more. Some subtle negs, a bit of C & F, have some fun, be a bit of a wild card, tease them about the age difference, or hint at how mature she is for her age.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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