"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infern0

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I'll just break it down.

Old oneitis from a couple of years ago in my afc days, friend zoned me, I at least had the sense to walk away.

She obviously seen my new Facebook pics after I reactivated a month ago.

Texts me that she missed me and we should hang out

I say sure when are you free

She says she'll check her schedule, it'll be good to be friends again

I say you can stick friends up your ass (slightly more polite) but that I don't mind going for a drink and see what happens

She says yes she would like that, she'll get back to me

I say no problem let me know when you are free and exit the conversation

She texts me 2 days later to ask if we are still on, I say yes when are you free. She still doesn't know but will figure it out. I say cool let me know and exit the conversation.

Three days later today she texts "hi how are you"

At this stage I haven't responded.

Strategy?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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'Hi, how's it going?'

blah blah

'What you up to?'

blah blah

'I'm going to this cool place to get a drink, you coming?'

blah blah

'Ok what's your number, I'll pick you up.'
 

Infern0

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backseatjuan said:
'Hi, how's it going?'

blah blah

'What you up to?'

blah blah

'I'm going to this cool place to get a drink, you coming?'

blah blah

'Ok what's your number, I'll pick you up.'
Bingo, cheers
 
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