"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RIGID USE OF STRATEGIES

Have you ever pushed to far in the only direction you know to go in? well, consider the consequences of over using an effective behaviour or style. if a person uses only one strategy when trying to solve a problem or pick up a women, it will eventually backfire. just because the strategy worked once or twice at crucial times does not mean it will work every time. but sometimes people over-generalize and rely on one straregy that does not fit for all contexts. this over-generalizing can actually be the presenting problem. eventfull ineffetiveness results from over reliance on any strategy or technique for dealing with self or lady. it seems that fear underlies the motivation for applying a single strategy to all issues.



if a hammer is your only tool then you will treat every issue if it where a nail.

doesnt it make sense to abandon your rigid strategies, techniques, and open your mind to face the real problem and head for the real anwers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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